HARTLAND — A memorial gathering will be held on Saturday, Sept. 2 at 11 a.m., at Damon Hall, in Hartland for Joseph S. Silver who died Aug. 26 at his home. All of his children had gathered to be with him while he was in the hospital.
He was born in Milton, Massachusetts on Feb. 21, 1944, second son of Lillian and Samuel Silver.
He grew up in Mattapan and Newton, Massachusetts and graduated from high school in Newton. He traveled a circuitous route through college, eventually graduating from Boston University, and later earning his master’s degree from Springfield College. During his early college years, he spent time on a kibbutz in Israel.
He was married to Emily Barrett on Oct. 7, 1979, in Newport, Rhode Island and they made their home in Hartland.
An educator and mentor to many, Joe was a teacher, guidance counselor, vice principal, principal, and superintendent, and worked in a number of school districts in Vermont and New Hampshire. He served as director of the Hartford Career and Technology Center, was vice principal of Lebanon High School, principal of Windsor High School, and superintendent of schools in Springfield.
After retiring, he served many districts as an interim superintendent and assisted school boards in their superintendent searches.
Joe’s laughter was contagious; it would fill a room and get everyone with him laughing. He loved to cook—and to eat, especially pickles, and never found a recipe that he wasn’t willing to try. He had a keen eye for antiques and loved to poke around at yard sales. He was a gardener, growing vegetables and perennials, which he would trade with friends. He and Emily opened their home to many friends, new and old, and would sit for hours over dinner and visit.
His greatest joy was to be with Emily, their children, and grandchildren. Their family would meet each summer on Cape Cod, and also take vacations together in far-flung locations, including London, Italy, Spain, Switzerland, and Hawaii.
In addition to his wife, Emily Barrett Silver, he is survived by four children: son, Benjamin Silver, of Charlotte, North Carolina and his wife Kimie Silver, and their children Kailee, Aiden, and Zachary; a daughter, Emily Turner, of London, and her husband, Tom Turner, and their children, Tommy and Lindsey; son, Matthew Silver, of Rockport, Massachusetts and his wife, Molly Silver, and their children Ella and M.J.; and son, Daniel Silver, of Hartland, and his wife, Yujin Silver, and their sons Isaac and Dean; one brother, Frank Silver, of Queens, New York; two nieces and two nephews; his first wife, April Silver, of Gloucester, Massachusetts; and many friends in Hartland, the Upper Valley, and beyond.
He was predeceased by a brother, Robert Silver.
The family wishes to express their gratitude to the excellent and compassionate staff, including the palliative care team, at the Norris Cotton Cancer Center at the Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, at LLS.org, or to the Norris Cotton Cancer Center, 1 Medical Center Drive, Lebanon, N.H., 03756.
This obituary will also appear in the August 31, 2017 edition of the Vermont Standard.
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