Windsor, VT
Roger Clyde Gilman, 84, died Thursday, August 15, at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center in Lebanon, NH surrounded by his loving family.
Roger was born in East Calais, Vermont October 18, 1934 to John Clyde and Inez Orr Gilman. He graduated from Lyndon Institute in Lyndon, where he excelled in football, basketball and track, and was class president for three years. Roger received a scholarship to Middlebury College and eventually transferred to Norwich University to complete a degree in 1958. At Norwich, he was on the Dean’s List and was elected to the national honorary civil engineering fraternity, Chi Epsilon.
He married Shirley Ann Jewett of Waterbury January 19, 1957.
Roger held a lifelong interest in both colleges and was an active alumnus. He and Shirley were members of the Partridge Society at Norwich and were regular attendees of its related functions. They were seasons passholders of the Norwich men’s ice hockey team and enjoyed Norwich – Middlebury football matches.
While a student at Norwich, Roger interned with the Vermont highway department and developed a keen interest in improving the state highway system. He worked for the state following graduation and in 1964 he was hired by Oliver “Chick” Miller, owner of Miller Construction. He would remain with the company for 50 years, serving as its president since 1982. Roger’s imprint is on hundreds of bridges, highways and projects across the state.
Throughout his career, Roger balanced his busy work life with service to his community and profession. For 14 years, while his five daughters attended schools in Windsor, he served on the school board. He was a longtime member of the Windsor Rotary Club and was past president and a Paul Harris Fellow. He served on the planning board and various ad-hoc committees focused on reinventing Windsor’s economy following the closure of the Goodyear and Cone Blanchard plants. He was past president of the Vermont Society of Engineers and attended many national engineering conferences. He was a member of the Wyoming Lodge of the Free Masons and the Mount Sinai Shrine. He was a member of the Old South Church for nearly 55 years and for many years was a member of John P. Larkin Country Club.
Throughout his life in Windsor, Roger was a fixture at community events and was a strong supporter of Windsor athletics. He attended as many of his daughters’ field hockey, track, softball, basketball and ski meets as he possibly could; his interest however was not limited to his own children’s activities. The community recognized Roger’s contribution in an eloquent town report dedication in 2014. It was written that “less obvious, and certainly more difficult to detail and describe, is the advice he has quietly and consistently provided to promote responsible actions in town affairs; his regular and ongoing presence at school athletic events, lending support to generations of Green and Gold athletes; the time he has spent guiding and mentoring area contractors and other members of the business community; and the many generous donations in kind of equipment and materials made by Roger’s company, Miller Construction, to advance school and town interests.”
Above all, he was a man of integrity and was well-respected across the state of Vermont. When Hurricane Irene devastated the state in 2011, Roger was called upon often and he worked tirelessly to help rebuild damaged roads and bridges. He was always at-the-ready to help his beloved community and state. He truly had passion for his work and for the many longtime employees of Miller Construction whom he treated with enormous respect and care.
Roger is survived by his devoted wife of 62 years, Shirley, who lovingly cared for him in the past year as his health declined, and children, Jody-Ann Gilman and Sara Swasey of Windsor, Jane Hoisington and her husband, Emerson, of Brownsville, Mary Dennis and her husband, Carl, of Jericho, Susan DuPlessis and her fiancee, Michael DiPhilippo of Newry, ME, grandchildren Ahren Erickson, Kirk Erickson and Leigh Erickson, Ian Dennis and Lauren Dennis, Margaret Hoisington and Andrea Hoisington, and great-grandchildren, Adalie, Marley and Maya Erickson. He was preceded in death by his father, mother and brother, a niece and many uncles and aunts.
A memorial service will be held Saturday, August 24 at 1pm, at Old South Congregational Church UCC in Windsor. Funeral arrangements are with Knight Funeral Home in Windsor, VT. Condolences may be expressed to Roger’s Family in an online guestbook at www.knightfuneralhomes.com.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Ascutney Outdoors, PO Box 101, Brownsville, VT 05037, or the Windsor Area Booster Club, 19 Ascutney Street, Windsor VT 05089.