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Patrick Coughlin
NEWPORT, New Hampshire — A celebration mass to honor the life of Patrick Bruce Coughlin, 73, who died peacefully in his sleep at his home on Oct. 17, will be held on Saturday, Oct. 31 at 11:30 a.m. at St. Patrick Catholic Church, 32 Beech St., Newport, New Hampshire. Visiting hours will be held Friday, Oct. 30 from 5-7 p.m. at the Newton-Bartlett Funeral Home, 42 Main St., Newport. Burial will be in Hartland Village Cemetery on Monday, Nov. 2 at 12 noon.
He leaves behind a wide community of friends, family, and former colleagues who found his company not only warmly entertaining and joyful, but humbling and inspiring. No adversity—personal losses or serious illness– ever diminished in Patrick a profound gratitude for the blessings in his life or his deep faith which bolstered him through his darkest hours with astonishing fortitude, courage and grace. He was at once reverent about the sanctity of life, and at peace with his own frailties. He prepared his heart and mind for whatever would come, and drew solace and strength from his deep faith and from his congregation at St. Patrick Catholic Church, where he found in others a great and comforting measure of care and profound generosity.
Patrick was born a twin with Michael Coughlin, in Lake Charles, Louisiana on Sept. 13, 1942, son of Lt. Colonel Robert Lee Coughlin and Melissa Brown Coughlin.
The young family moved several times before, during and after the war, including a posting in U.S. occupied Germany. Shortly after Col. Coughlin’s death in 1951 the twins and their siblings moved with their mother to Hartland, where they discovered in country life on an old farm many opportunities for misadventures which provided Patrick hilarious tales he delighted in sharing his entire life. When his mother remarried, Patrick loved his stepfather Longin Ambros as a true father, and all his brothers and sisters.
Patrick attended St. Johnsbury Academy in Vermont, then earned a degree in business at Husson College in Bangor, Maine. He pursued a career in sales, which suited his warm and gregarious demeanor. Often he worked two or three jobs at once to provide for his wife Mary Elizabeth Demers from Lebanon, New Hampshire and their sons Michael and Peter. Patrick shared all that he had without keeping much for himself; he was a proud, doting dad and grandfather, and he took great pleasure in selecting gifts for his extended family. He lived his entire adult life in New Hampshire and never wavered from his early and steadfast allegiance to the New York Yankees, even while surrounded by Red Sox fans.
Patrick worked for many years at Serry’s, a men’s clothing store in Hanover where he divided his time between customers seeking classic well tailored clothing and colleagues who daily bantered about world news, politics and sports. His wit was founded in self-mockery, never cruel or caustic towards others. At large family gatherings his laughter was a beacon to his whereabouts.
Patrick lived for 16 years with his son Michael’s family in Sunapee, beginning while he was still working, and ten years after he retired due to illness. There he watched his beloved grandchildren Matthew and Mariah grow from toddlers to teenagers. In those years his consistent appraisal of his cancer was that it gifted him with time for loved ones, especially his mother who lived to be 97, his cat George, old friends and many new ones, and to explore the profound faith that brought him unwavering peace and profound gratitude.
He will be remembered lovingly by his son Michael and wife Vicki and their children Matthew and Mariah, of Sunapee, New Hampshire; and his son Peter and wife Suzie of Claremont, New Hampshire; by his brothers and sisters—Christopher and wife Huguette, Springfield; Catherine Coughlin and husband Randall Weill, Cape Elizabeth, Maine; Maria Van Beuren, North Haverhill, New Hampshire; Victor Ambros and wife Rosalind Lee, Holden, Massachusetts; Theodore Ambros and wife Andrea, Hartland; Elizabeth Ambros, Hartland; and Thomas Ambros and wife Karen of Schenectady, New York. He took delight in charting the impressive escapades and achievements of ten nieces and nephews making lives in Vermont, the South Pole, Mississippi, Wisconsin, California, Connecticut, and Massachusetts, all of whom knew of their uncle’s great love and pride in them.
Patrick was predeceased by his father; mother and stepfather—Melissa and Longin Ambros; one brother Michael; and by one nephew Brendan Coughlin.
Patrick left a request that in lieu of flowers, donations be sent in his name to his beloved congregation at St Patrick Catholic Church.
This obituary will also appear in the October 22, 2015 print edition of the Vermont Standard.
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